Saturday, May 26

The False Markers of Integration

Even the most hard-hearted of us must have felt a modicum of emotion during Tony Blair's speech announcing the date of his resignation. The man has a way with words and is a talented orator. For a brief interlude I felt a spark of national pride, a sense of unity. Blair claimed that Britain was the "greatest nation on earth." My British-ness which insists that I understate everything ("how are you now that you've won ten million pounds in the lottery" "can't complain") and which writhes in pain at self-promotion squirmed painfully when I heard this. It was more reminiscent of Bush and America. Paradoxically, his words did create a momentary flicker which did make me feel proud to be British (not because of Tony's activities!). Just for a nano-second I felt part of a nation.

As a country we experience relatively few of these moments of nationhood. Princess Diana's death was perhaps one, the fall of Margaret Thatcher another. The sore thumb in this list might be the day London won the bid for the Olympics. It was a day of positive achievement.

That to me appears to be where one of our key problems as a nation lies. As a British people we are like a gaggle of gossiping old ladies. We wheedle out the negatives, look for the problems and divisions, ignore the facts and then dispense unmerciful small-village justice to all and sundry. No wonder it's all doom and gloom. And misery and negativity causes a downward spiral of poor analysis and shoddy judgements. We all know what happened with the scare-mongering about weapons of mass destruction in Iraq. If you go out with a pre-conceived theory looking for trouble, you will be sure to find it.

The BBC's Panorama programme is very guilty of this approach. They aired a show recently about Britain's "growing ethnic division". They focused their analysis primarily on Blackburn but also on some other big cities and then analysed the behaviour of its 'white' and 'Muslim Asian' inhabitants looking for the signs of division and apartheid. This uncomfortable labelling was the programme's own. Each little experiment they ran was designed to see how the paths of these two groups ran separately, how they embodied today's buzzword: "parallel lives".

For example, the programme makers went out on a Saturday night in a big city centre to see whether 'whites' were out with 'Muslim Asians'. The predominantly Muslim Asians were playing snooker in smoke-free clubs. It was a comparatively quiet night out. The 'whites' were out in pubs and clubs getting plastered on their night off. They certainly seemed more animated and lively. Instead of us worrying about this growing phenomenon of binge drinking that brings so many desperate complications with it, we're being told that the fact Muslim Asians aren't doing it too is a cause for concern.

The programme failed to note the obvious - Muslims, by and large, don't necessarily want to go out, get horribly drunk and go partying. Does integration demand that they do? Clothing seems to be an issue as well. Does integration demand that Muslim women should swap their long black cloaks, for short black dresses? What about love and relationships. Does the victory of multiculturalism require inter-marriage? Politically motivated choices about life-partners will only be a hollow meaningless victory. Policymakers want ethnic communities which include Muslims to speak only English to their children at home, instead of teaching them literacy at school.

These are the wrong questions, and inevitably they lead to the wrong answers, the wrong decisions and therefore they bring into being the very issues they describe. The same fingers are not pointed at other communities. These are false indicators of integration and cohesiveness and are designed simply to pick out these 'problems' with Muslims. Find a city and watch the interactions and paths of different classes and you will find the same conclusions. You won't see someone from Chelsea shopping with the kids from the block in Brixton. The students at Oxford University don't hang with their peers from down the road.

These attitudes are particularly grating because they fail to acknowledge the positives that are happening. Studies that challenge the assumptions are swiftly ignored. Where is our sense of looking for the positive? We should look through optimistic spectacles, not bang on with our own gossip-mongering prejudices.

A Lancaster University study, commissioned by the Home Office, examined the attitudes of 435 fifteen-year-olds on race, religion and integration. The students surveyed were at a predominantly white school in Burnley, a predominantly Asian Muslim school in Blackburn, and a mixed school in Blackburn. The study concluded that: "It might be reasonable... to suggest that it is the Asian-Muslim students in both the mixed and monocultural schools of Burnley and Blackburn who are in fact the most tolerant of all."

Gallup commissioned a poll of Muslims in London. It found that Muslims' loyalty to Britain is greater than the general public: 74 per cent as opposed to 45 per cent. Of the Muslims polled, 57 per cent said they identified strongly with their country, compared with 48 per cent of the British public.

A recent Populus poll agreed with this survey where it was found that only 33 per cent of the general population said they had Muslims as close personal friends. And yet almost 90 per cent of Muslims said they had close non-Muslim friends.

The poll indicates that Muslims are just as worried about the daily essentials and local issues as everyone else. These include issues such as the rise of gun crime, the increase in gang-related crime, poor education amongst the youth, high unemployment and poor health.

The great surprise then is no surprise. If we stop creating negative self-fulfilling prophecies, we find that most people share a sense of national identity, they want the basics to be taken care of, and they just want to live happy pleasant lives.

This article was recently published in The Muslim News

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21 Comments:

Blogger Andrew B said...

This is a fantastic piece.

I agree with you on Blair. He is an amazing orator and seems to be a nice bloke. He's such a contrast with our Australian PM's narrow-mindedness and conservatism. However, he's made some seemingly ill-advised decisions - whether Bush gave him any choice is another matter.

Britain became funky and cool again when Blair was first elected. It was optimistic and bright, after the dour and mean conservative years. It's a shame that the party didn't last a little longer.

Cynicism is becoming King again. The London bombings were a cruel slap in the face the day after the Olympics celebrations. That's bound to make people cynical - rightly or wrongly.

12:55 am  
Blogger Shak said...

Excellent article.

10:38 am  
Blogger Muhamad Lodhi said...

There's a Channel4 programme on about Muslims in Britain. Check their schedule. I saw the trailer, it seems unbiased.

8:29 pm  
Blogger Shelina Zahra Janmohamed said...

Do you know what it is called?

8:48 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

whatever we do, they will always find reason to vilify us and say we are not "integrating". why dont they instead try to integrate with us.

12:08 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think he may have referred to "God’s Waiting Room"

Monday 4th June - 8pm. http://www.channel4.com/culture/microsites/C/can_you_believe_it/debates/allahsdoor.html


Another brilliant article.
Out of interest, how is it that you go about submitting articles for the muslim news - do you send a sample of the work or proposal? Interested in doing the same.

4:26 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey... great blog.
I read your piece on Muslim swimsuits. I am searching for one and was wondering if you know where they are available in London or on any website? Thanks.

2:39 pm  
Blogger Iqbal Khaldun said...

Great post.

7:58 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum
Great article. What are your thoughts on Hassan Butt? I feel that in the last few days since the attempted car bombs he has been portraying Islam very negatively in the media.
There is an excellent article up about him on ummahpulse.co.uk
Have a look at it - the link is below,
Wassalam
Saffy

8:26 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jamal, you said that "whatever we do, they will always find reason to vilify us and say we are not "integrating". why dont they instead try to integrate with us. "

Has it ever occurred to you that there are things like honour killings and forced mariages that are simply unacceptable in a Western society?

OTOH no one stops you from going to Mosque, from building your own Mosque, from refusing to eat pork and drink alcohol, etc

What is reasonable is reasonable, full stop.
Sister Francesca

12:31 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Sister Shelina
You say that "Does the victory of multiculturalism require inter-marriage?"
Can I ask you what is wrong with inter-marriages?
As I said in a previous post, my first (forced and subsequently nullified in a Court of Law) marriage to a "so called Muslim man" was a disaster, while my second marriage (of my own free choice) to a non-Muslim was simply wonderful.
And, on a slightly different point, who says that a Muslimah cannot marry a non-Muslim (as I have heard so many times before)?
Where does this ridicolous rule come from?
Sister Francesca

12:41 am  
Blogger Shelina Zahra Janmohamed said...

I think being part of the community is essential - read my piece on "in the footsteps of great muslim cultures" where I make the point that previous great muslim cultures were found on the very heady mix of cultures. HOWEVER, my point is that requiring statistics that Muslims are "intermarrying" as proof that they are "integrating" and therefore "like us" is a total fallacy.

As for where the "ridiculous rule" has come from, I'm no expert, but I figure the verse of the Qur'an that talks about "believing men for believing women" (and vice versa) is a pretty strong indication for the foundation of the rule. Any arguments with the Qur'an?

3:43 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Sister Shelina
Thanks for the reply.
I am no expert either.
Learning the Quran is a growing process for all of us.
Of course I have no argument with the Quran itself, but I suspect that the rule is NOT on the Quran itself.
As to the Surah you mention, I don't know, I will need to do some research on it, but it doesn't sound like a prohibition for Muslim sisters to marry
non-Muslims.

And this is the point I was trying to make.
We know that love is blind.
But we also know the tremendous pressure faced by a Muslimah who falls in love for a non-Muslim, with lots of name-calling, threats to disown her or even worse, and the risk of a "honour killing" in the worst case.
This cannot be right, and is surely not sanctioned by the Quran.
Even Sister Saira Khan (if you can, please read her book, "PUSH for success") found some of negative reactions from her family, especially from her mother, when she told them that she was about to marry Steve.
However Steve himself drove from London to Long Eaton to explain Saira's mum how much he loved Saira, how much he respected Islam even if he was a non-Muslim, etc, and eventually Saira's mum said that she couldn't ask for a better son-in-law and gave the forthcoming wedding her blessing.
Now this is what I call integration.
More on the next message.
Sister Francesca.

6:50 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

OOPs, Dear Sister Sheline, i think that I posted the previous comment twice, sorry for the mistake.
Regarding the risks faced by a Muslimah who falls in love for a non-Muslim, a recent case of honour killing in Italy has shocked the whole nation (and awoken a lot of ghosts from my own past).
A young pakistani girl living in Italy, a certain Hina Saleem (please do a Google search), fell in love for a handsome Italian non Muslim man.
Her father ordered her to leave that man and marry her cousin.
she refused and her father brutally killed her.

Now, can any Western society fail to condems this kind of behaviour?
I wouldn't hesitate for one second to comdemn it, but unfortunately there are too many Politically correct idiots saround who believe that for a Muslim man to do like this is part and parcel of his own culture.
Take care
Sister Francesca

7:11 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Sister Shelina
It is me, Sister Francesca again.
Many scholars, in justifying the prohibition for Muslim sisters to marry non-Muslims invoke the Al-Mumtahinah Surah (no. 60) verse 10: "Oh Believers, when believing women come over to you as refugees, do make trial of them .... if you have acertained their faith let them not go back to the infidels, since they are not lawful for them nor are the unbelievers lawful for these women".
These scholars also argue that a non-Muslim man will surely force a Muslim wife and their kids away from Islam.
Points taken!
And it is true that a functioning couple must have some common ground on which to build a relationship, and religion can sometimes be a very thorny issue.
However my own experience tells me that with an abusive husband (however much this man claims to be a good Muslim) there is no way you can raise our kids as good kids, let alone good Muslims.
OTOH my Italian husband has always encouraged me to wear Islamic clothes, to follow an Islamic way of life and teach our kids the Quran, and in fact my eldest daughter has recently expressed her wish to wear the headscarf, as the Quran commands.
With the full blessing from my husband.
Peace
Sister Francesca

11:38 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Sister Shelina et al
Salaam.
Sister Saira Khan is not my favourite cup of tea, because she is a capitalist and I am a communist (porud member of Rifondazione Comunista from Italy), however her book, PUSH for success, is a must read for those who wish to learn how to achieve integration (which is pretty much down to simple commonsense, anyway).
In the section of the book that deals with her wedding, you will see that her ultra-conservative mum was initially utterly shocked when Sister Saira told her about Steve, who saw the situation and decided to go himself to Long Eaton to talk to her mum, to tell her how much he loved Sister Saira, how much he respected Islam, how much he wanted Saira to stick to her Islamic way of life in an athmosphere of mutual respect and tolerance, etc.
Eventually Sister Saira's mum said "I could not have asked Allah for a better son-in-law".
Needless to say, she describes her wedding day as a wonderful "East meet West" occasion.
I don't know Steve personally, but I believe he is pretty much like my husband, laid-back, liberal and tolerant.
If there were more people like him and Sister Saira there would be no room in Britain or anywhere else for BNP fuehrer Nick Griffin or "Hook" Hamza
Peace
Sister Francesca
More in the next post

5:13 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Continued from the previous message

Last year a young lady living in my neighbourhood came back from her Tunisian holiday with a Tunisian fiance', a practising Muslim.
Her mum at the beginning was unhappy, but they sat down and talked, and eventually her mum said that "she was really in love with her future son-in-law".
Now they are happily married and expecting their first child.

Same story with an Italian bloke I know, who came one day took home his Moroccan fiancee', and both of them had to literally square the circle to convince their respective parents (and also had to threaten legal action against the Moroccan embassy that initially refused to release the necessary documents because he would not convert to Islam) to let the marriage go ahead, but now they are happily married.

Unfortunately a young Pakistani girl called Hina Saleem was not so lucky: her honour-obsessed father ordered her to marry her cousin, but when she replied that she was in love with an Italian bloke (who had already started taking Quranic lessons in order to better understand her religion) her fatehr brutally killed her, and this has shaken an extremely tolerant nation to the core.
The man had lived in Italy for many years, but he was clearly not integrated and he thought he could live like back home.

My point here is: Oh parents, whatever your religion, a son-in-law or daughter-in-law from another religion is not a green monster with overgrown front teeth.
Especially Muslim parents, a non-Muslim son-in-law is NOT a dishonour to your family.
Just give them a chance.

Peace, love and integration

Sister Francesca

5:49 pm  
Blogger Shelina Zahra Janmohamed said...

Sister Francesca has broken her comment into several pieces, so I'm recombining her comments here:

Dear Sister Shelina
Sorry to bother you again, but I feel really compelled to write.
I have just finished watching the BBC2 program "Saira Khan Pakistan adventure".
It was really wonderful, and I hope perfectly successful in showing the British public that Pakistan is not a hellhole filled with Taleban fanatics, but a colourful and TOLERANT kaleidoscope of images of so many different worlds peacefully living side by side.
Hopefully this program has put paid to the equation MUSLIM = FANATIC = BIGOT = ALL EVIL THINGS UNDER THE SUN.
Like Sister Saira with extreme sadness said recently to the Mail on Sunday, unfortunately nowadays the word "Muslim" has become a dirty one.
Of course: open a newspaper (or watch it over the Internet), and you see Hook Hamza, Anjem Choudhary and Abu Izzedeen beside every sensationalistic headline.
But rarely see any mention of Irene Khan (the current Amnesty International Secretary General) or Baroness Uddin (the first Muslimah peer in British history) and many other diligent and hard working Brothers and Sisters who have made Britain a much better place.

Ah, I forgot to say the most important thing:

TIME FOR THE PRESS TO ACKNOWLEDGE THAT MUSLIMS ARE HUMAN BEINGS TOO, WITH THE SAME DREAMS, ASPIRATIONS AND DAILY LIFE PROBLEMS AS ANYONE ELSE, GOT IT?
THERE SHOULD BE NO SUCH THING AS MUSLIM DIVERSITY, FULL STOP.

However the Muslim community has to play its part.

Time to stop with victimhood mentality and self-pity, which are sweet poisons plentifully dished out by vote-hungry loony lefties like Respect and others.
Time to stop indulging in Khalifa fantasies, because the "Khalifa Muslim paradise" has never existed in history (Well, maybe during the Muslim golden age, but I wouldn't bet on that, I am no historian)
Time to stop dreaming about "living like back home", because Sister Saira's program has clearly shown that back home things are totally different.
Time to get out of the "Pakistan in the 60's" time warp and wake up in the 21 century.
Peace
Sister Francesca

9:32 pm  
Blogger Shelina Zahra Janmohamed said...

Sister Francesca - you say "There should be no such thing as Muslim diversity".

Please take this point up with the Creator who has clearly stated in the Qur'an that human beings by their very nature have been created diverse - He has created you in tribes and nations, and He also talks about colours and languages.

9:34 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh no, Sister Shelina, that was not my meaning.

I meant to say that Muslims' diversity should not be inconvenient to anyone, that we should not be treated as suspicious aliens, but as valued members of society.

Of course we all are different! That is why I totally support your hard work to make not only the Ummah but the world at large a more pleasant place.

That is why in all the Islamic forums in which I am involved I always challenge those forum members who are trying to use the Internet to spread their "monochromatic" views.

Unfortunately debating with these people is simply impossible.

So sad that our worst enemies are those (who claim to be) of our own.

Peace

Sister Francesca

7:19 am  
Blogger christine dawson said...

Hi Shelina
Thought you might like to know about my Art. What Makes Me Laugh?is presently on at Blackburn Museum and Art Gallery. An exhibition of photographs and text portraying a positive image of Muslims using elements of fun and laughter. see www.whatmakesmelaugh.com
Also follow the link for Sweet Dreams. This new exhibition is about the Sweet Dreams of women who wear the niqab.
See website above for more detailed explanation.
Cheers Christine

11:01 am  

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